Joys Within Reality

Something I love doing when I’m at home by myself is playing video games. I’m sure the fact that there are literally hundreds of reviews on this blog does a good job of illustrating that point. Similarly, I very much enjoy reading – or even posting a status on Facebook and watching the likes pile up.

But something I enjoy even more, is spending time with friends. For me, no matter how great the things I mentioned above may be, they can never equate to the joys of things which actually exist within our world. This was made especially clear to me a couple of months ago when a friend stayed over at my house.

They went to have a shower and, as they did so, I took out my 3DS to pass the time. I was in the middle of playing through Donkey Kong Country 3 and when I played, I was on one of my favourite levels. It is, for reference, also one of my favourite games. Normally, that would be a particularly exciting activity for me, but it just felt quite flat. The reason was that I had a friend near – yes, they were unavailable at that exact second, but I was still in the social-mindframe and when I’m in that mindframe, it makes me realise that other activities really pale in comparison.

So, for me, it’s kind of hard to understand how some people can be so completely captivated by their mobile phones. I appreciate that some people use their phones to ease anxiety and others need to communicate with friends about urgent subjects, but I think the majority of people are just doing it to look at their likes or to see the latest Instagram photos. If asked, I am sure they’d tell you that they value the things in reality more than the things on their phone, but in practice the phone would get the priority.

I think that’s quite sad, because it essentially means that people are often not focusing on the things which are most important to them. It all comes down to the fact that checking your phone can actually be quite an addictive thing. A lot of people are offended when they meet up with somebody and they’re on their phone (it doesn’t personally bother me) but, really, it’s the person on their phone who is missing out on what they really appreciate in life.

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Darkness and Light

There’s a lot of darkness in the world. As much as I like to try to be an optimistic person and keep the tone of this blog generally optimistic – this is a fact that I simply cannot ignore. If I were to ignore this, my optimism would not be grounded in realism at all. In fact, it’s true that sometimes I am guilty of focusing too much on the darkness.

But every person, every friend is a light in the darkness. Not every person is an equal source of light, but everyone is important. Somebody might be a candle burning against the dark, another might be a lantern – others may even be street lamps or as bright as lighthouses. In fact, I’d go so far as to say that I’ve known a sun in my time,

The darkness is a sad fact, but without it, perhaps I’d fail to notice the beauty of the lights and to take them for granted would be a terrible shame. The light will always outshine the darkness – but the important thing is to remember that it’s always there, if you know where to look… and sometimes that’s within, because we’re all a source of light in our own ways.

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The Picture of Dorian Gray by Oscar Wilde

There’s one thing that people probably know about this novel before going in, because there’s one single feature which seems to have resonated in our public consciousness: the idea of a man who does not age, because he has a painting of himself which ages instead. While this is certainly one aspect of The Picture of Dorian Gray (and an interesting one at that) there’s still so much more to it than that.

At the heart of the story are three friends: Basil Hallward (my favourite), Lord Henry and, of course, Dorian Gray himself. Dorian is an innocent young man (at least initially), Basil is a sensitive artist (who paints the titular picture of Dorian) and Lord Henry is a hedonistic man who sees people as nothing more than a means through which to experience sensations. I appreciate that the three main characters all have very strong personalities and are all very distinct.

Something I should also mention is the fact that Basil is in love with Dorian. Since it was the nineteenth century, they never outright say that he’s gay (or at least not heterosexual) but the extent to which he talks about how much he loves Dorian in a way that he’d never loved a woman makes it pretty obvious. With this in mind, it’s also especially good that he’s the moralistic one… Although it’s not too surprising, since Wilde himself was bisexual.

The bulk of the plot is about the corruption of Dorian at the hands of Lord Henry, but ultimately Dorian ends up as much, much worse person than Lord Henry. The two of them share many conversations about their attitudes towards other people and, honestly, their perspectives are disgusting – but they’re also fascinating. These parts were probably my favourite bits because as much as I disagreed with Lord Henry, I enjoyed his perspective so much.

If you think that that sounds like it would be really boring, I should mention that there are several huge and highly distressing events which take place which I couldn’t mention without spoiling things. But, basically, this is a pretty shocking book. In the best of ways: do brace yourselves. Also, if you’re someone who struggles with classic literature, I feel like the writing style in this novel is a little more accessible, so you should definitely give it a try. I strongly recommend this for everyone – a glorious portrait of human nature.

Rating: 9.4/10

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Running in the Dark

A few months ago, I started going on an evening run most days. I used to go to a gym, but then I stopped that for money reasons and went to Wii Fit, but then it ended up being unbearably hot inside, so outside running it was. For me, the ideal time is quite late at night because that means that I get to avoid all of the obstacles that runners face during the day.

One of my favorite places to run is down a road which runs through a small wooded area. At the time of day that I do it, it is completely black. Going here regularly has helped me to make an interesting observation about running in the dark. For whatever reason, it’s much less tiring. It’s very noticeable that when I come out of that area and back onto the path with street lights, I all of a sudden feel the weight of my exercise crashing down on me. Similarly, when I’m in the dark, my mind wanders, but I am never really conscious of aching.

I suppose that when I am in the dark, I can’t see any part of myself, which then makes me forget about the effect that the running is having on my body. But what’s interesting about that, is that it’s not what you would expect to happen – or certainly not what I would expect to happen. I wonder if that would work at all in regards to pain relief? It just goes to show how fickle our senses truly are.

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Parallel Moments

In October 2016, I came to the end of a job which I did not enjoy very much. When I left, I accidentally left behind a yellow smiley face stress ball which I was quite fond of. It was especially useful for that particular job, since it involved a lot of stress. I texted a colleague who had remained there and asked her if she could retrieve it for me, but sadly I discovered that it had been angrily thrown into the bin after I’d gone. It was a sad loss.

Almost two years later, I found myself coming to the end of a job which I had enjoyed quite a lot. It was better than that other job in most every way and was certainly not a cause of stress. While working there, I had regaled one of my colleagues with horrific tales of my older job – including the sad fate of my smiley face stress ball. So on my last day, as a parting gift, she gave me a new smiley face stress ball (among other things.)

It was identical to the original and was such a satisfying gift in many ways. I lost the original when leaving a place of stress – its purpose potentially served. I gained the replacement when leaving a stress-free environment, potentially entering more stressful times – its purpose renewed. I lost the original as the result of bitterness from a very unlikeable person. I gained the replacement as a result of kindness from a very likeable person. I like to think of it as having been reincarnated by the power of kindness. I like when things fit together perfectly.

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StreetPass Trader

Of all the things my Mii had been doing in the StreetPass games, I never expected them to end up playing the stock market… but then I got StreetPass Trader and it happened. I should also add that Nintendo gave this game away for free at some point, which was when I got it, so that was pretty cool of them.

So, anyway, here’s how this game works. Your Mii arrives at a big trading centre and speaks with a man called Wallace Street (remove the ‘ace’ and enjoy the pun) who explains how the stock market works. Then all of the Miis that you’ve amassed via StreetPass appear and are stock market analysts.

You’re given a choice of businesses to buy and sell stocks in and you do this as their value changes in real time. Before you choose a business, you’re given a line chart to predict the growth of each business – the more analysts you have, the more accurate the prediction. This is useful in that it can help you to decide which businesses you want to buy (or sell) stock in.

What makes these businesses so cool is the fact that each of them is based on another StreetPass game. After buying or selling stock, you are given the opportunity to buy products from the businesses (their value depending on the value of the stocks) and you can sell these at a higher price later on, if you so choose. The products you can buy are items from the other games and it gave me a weird thrill to buy a copy of the snowman from the background of Puzzle Swap or a life-size model of Mr. Mendel from StreetPass Garden.

That’s pretty much all there is to this one. The goal is for your Mii to become rich and you have certain wealth accumulation-based milestones to reach. When I compare it to something like StreetPass Fishing which ended with a damning comment about humanity’s self-destructive tendencies, it’s a little bit disappointing, but I suppose I don’t expect a great story from these little games. Overall, it was quite a fun and unique little game and I am sure fans of the other games will love this one too.

Rating: 6.8/10

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Hire Me

In recent times, I’ve made a fair few job applications. My CV does, of course, make reference to the fact that I run this modest little blog, so I suppose it’s not impossible that some potential employers are snooping around here, trying to find out some more information about me. (If you are an employer who’s doing that: well done, 10/10 recruitment research skills there.)

And I guess you’re mostly looking for some kind of indicator that I would be a suitable candidate. Looking around this blog, you’ll soon find that the posts are a mixture of funny things, sentimental things, book reviews and video game reviews. What does that tell you? Why, it tells you that I am somebody with heart and a sense of humour! And the reviews tell you that I have refined appreciation for our culture. Exactly the kind of person you want around the office.

Plus, there’s a good chance that I applied for a content-based position and through reading these blog posts you’ll quickly discover that I am a top rate writer. I mean, everything I say comes out sounding like it sounds good, right, yeah. (Ha – hilarious self-deprecation there.) But, I mean, I have also applied for some non-content roles and you may be thinking “this guy’s good, but he’d probably be happier as a writer” and if that is the case – please change your mind! I only apply for jobs I want to have – I’m not being forced to apply for any random jobs by a “work coach” at the Job Centre. Being told I’d be happier as a writer is such an annoying reason to be turned down for a job.

On the other hand, you might be thinking “What an enormously unorthodox and unprofessional thing to do, I cannot possibly hire this person” but if that’s your attitude, do reconsider. My CV and cover letter are both very professional and this blog is just a passion project where I write whatever I like – nobody is professional 100% of the time. Also, check out this blog post, because one past employed read this before my interview and loved it! I got that job, so, you know… I’ll just leave that link there so it can work its magic again. Pretty funny right? With a tinge of deep emotion. Superb! Sublime! (The second word isn’t really a part of my day to day vocabulary, but I remember English Literature lecturers using it a lot to talk about good writing.)

Now I’ll just sit back and await your emails. No, it’s okay. You can all do it at once. Honestly, it will be quite an ego-boost if I open my inbox and find about ten emails inviting me to an interview. No, you’re not being a nuisance at all. Why, of course I’d be happy with a higher salary! And my own office? You’re too kind! Too kind! I’ll be seeing you very soon.

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Radicalisation

Today I’d like to talk about an increasingly worrying issue: radicalisation. Part problem is that I don’t feel as though the issue is ever fairly or accurately reported on. For example, you’ll hear about a terrorist act done in the name of Islam, which will prompt people to say that there is a problem with that belief system.

The thing is though, any belief system can have radicalised members. You could have radicalised Christians doing the same thing. You have radicalised “Alt Right” people doing the same – or, to name two groups whose ideologies I agree with, you could have radicalised LGBT activists or radicalised feminists. If somebody believes in an ideal, you can conceivably persuade them to kill or harm others in the name of that ideal. In fact, if you look to history, you’ll find that people have killed in the name of pretty much everything. Following the argument that if members of a belief set can be radicalised, that belief set is harmful ultimately stops you from believing in anything… except maybe pacifism. I’m pretty sure nobody has ever killed someone in the name of pacifism, but you never know.

So, what actually does cause it? Honestly, it’s a very complex thing and will never be as simple as “certain belief systems are just evil” though I will admit, that some will be easier radicalised than others. If your belief system tells you that certain groups or certain people are lesser, or deserve lesser rights for whatever reason, then it’s probably going to be easier to convince you that actually, it’s also okay to harm those people.

I think that the biggest causes could be ignorance and lack of communication. Say Group A and Group B believe different things, but very rarely interact. They struggle to understand each other’s beliefs (even though neither is necessarily harmful) and so criticise the other group among members of their own group. Eventually, something happens which puts Group A at an advantage over Group B (perhaps they even acted inconsiderately) – now the B people who have never really known A people will get even angrier. Maybe then an A person (again, who has never known a B person that well) notices that B people are a bit more hostile or uneasy around A people – perhaps they’re in a position of power and make things harder for B people. The B people then conclude that A people do not value the wellbeing of B people. Listening to nobody but members of their own group, the B people then attack the A people in the name of redressing the balance. The A people hurt have nothing to do with the A people who made the selfish decisions, but they now have very negative attitudes about B people – maybe  retaliation is planned. Ultimately, lives on both sides are taken and those hurt are always the innocent ones who had nothing to do with the bad decisions.

I don’t want to say “they’re all as bad as each other” because I don’t think that’s fair and it oversimplifies far too much. Radicalisation comes from people forgetting the humanity of those they agree with. Even somebody who agrees in peace and love for all, could end up turning violent if they have been convinced that somebody embodies war and hatred for all. Everyone is the main character of their own stories and believes that their perspective is what’s best and most fair. Everyone thinks they’re fighting for what’s right and when they look to media and literature, the fight for what’s right normally involves violence.

I’ve probably guilty as just as much over simplification as anybody else, but I just wanted to demonstrate that demonising a specific group is both counter-productive and not true to reality.

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Parachute

Parachute is one of the better known Game & Watches. It and Fire are the two games which serve as the biggest influences of the design of Mr. Game & Watch as we know him today. To be honest, the two of them are both quite similar games in general.

In this one, you play as a person in a rescue boat who moves back and forth between three different spots, in order to catch people (who are identical to Mr. Game & Watch) jumping out of a helicopter. There’s a constant stream of parachuters, so you’ve always got to be moving and you’ve always got to be ready. Where they fall determines the speed of their descent, so you’ll need to be strategic about your movements. And you know what happens if you aren’t ready to catch someone? If you let them fall into the water? Well, they get eaten alive by a shark. Dwell on that. They may look like generic silhouette people, but in their own world they’re sons and daughters, husbands and wives, brothers and sisters. If you don’t catch someone, you’re ruining lives. The stakes are high.

It kind of bothers me that one small life boat holds literally hundreds of people, but I suppose I shouldn’t be holding a Game & Watch to real life standards. As always, you’ve got a hard mode as well and you can also set an alarm. As Game & Watches go, this is one of the better ones. It’s easy to grasp and not too slow paced.

Rating: 7.2/10

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My Most Rewarding Experience as a Writer

For as long as I can remember, I have always been creatively oriented. I have memories of making my own “picture books” by folding over pieces of paper together and making stories which were complete rip-offs of other picture books I’d read and loved. However, I feel like 2004 was the year I “became” a writer, because that was the year that I started going onto Microsoft Word, going to a blank document and then writing out stories. So that’s 14 years’ worth of writing experience that I have by now.

And in that time, what was the most rewarding experience? Well, it wasn’t any of the obvious choices. It wasn’t my first published article, it wasn’t my first published piece of fiction, it wasn’t graduating from my Creative Writing course at Bath Spa University, it wasn’t successfully completing NaNoWriMo and it wasn’t getting my first full time writing job. No, my most rewarding experience as a writer, was writing my 100th story in 2008.

The story was titled, get this, “100th Story” and, to be quite honest with you, it wasn’t that great. Basically, I tried to tie together all of the characters from my previous 99 stories into one big story revolving around the Earth being infested with evil aliens called Soulsuckers (they sucked out your soul! Kind of.)

At 16,000 words, it was the longest thing I had ever written at the time, but looking back now, I know that it could never really be published. It wasn’t just reaching this milestone that got me excited though – what made this such a rewarding experience, is that it was a communal one.

As I was writing it, a lot of my friends started to take an interest in it. I’d asked several of them to read my stories every now and then, so most of them were familiar with at least some of my characters. People kept asking me how the story was coming along and it felt really good to know that my work meant something to people other than me.

To repay my friends for their support, I incorporated many of them into the stories as characters. When doing this, I tried to capture the dynamics we shared back then and looking back now, it’s nice to read a fictionalised version of my relationships with my old friends Ben, Davey, George, Sarah and “a really strange looking kid.” In reality, relationships always evolve and it’s nice to have this sort of snapshot of how things were ten years ago.

One thread of the story involved a school trip, which inadvertently brought my friends into the heart of the alien invasion. I remember killing at least one of them off actually, which seems a bit weird in retrospect – but I also killed off ‘myself’ in it, so I guess that makes it less bad.

When I finally finished it, I printed out copies for all my friends who were interested and I remember getting positive feedback from all of them. Some even said that they had given it to their parents to read – and they’d loved it as well! Having an audience who loved my work felt fantastic and I couldn’t have been happier if it were distributed and sold to thousands, because that small and dedicated following was infinitely valuable to me. I hope one day I will be able to captivate people like that again – and that every writer will get to experience that feeling at least once.

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