A Creative Exercise in Empathy

Something which I like to use as a writing prompt and which I like to use to help broaden my understanding of other perspectives, is to try writing from contrary points of view to my own. You could either write a story where somebody who holds beliefs which are different to yours is the protagonist, or where somebody who strongly supports your cause is the villain. Not only will this stop your writing from being too preachy (and help to make things less black and white and more grey, like reality) but it will help you to consider things which you may not have done before, perhaps prompting you to research topics which will just generally help to make you more open minded.

An additional benefit of this is that it’s quite a good way to help you come up with new ideas. If you have to build a storyline around an ideology you don’t agree with being a force for good (or one you do being a force for evil) then you might just find yourself with something quite interesting on your hands. This will help the body of your work to be more diverse and, hopefully, more interesting. A couple of times I have written stories where my perspective are “the bad guys” but have still ultimately conveyed a message I agreed with. It’s an experiment that’s well worth trying for any writers.

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Laziness

I was fortunate enough to make so much money from freelance writing in November that I was able to take off all of December. I decided to dedicate that time to visiting as many friends as possible and doing something nice and Christmassy with them. I visited one of my internet friends for the first time, I reunited with a favourite university professor of mine, watched Christmas light switch ons, went to Christmas markets and had innumerable dinners out with different friends. It was a wonderful m0nth and I am deeply privileged to know so many people who are happy to dedicate time to me and whose company I enjoy so much.

When people ask me what I’ve been doing lately, I say I’ve been lazy and gone through December without doing any work. But, thinking about it, that’s not a healthy attitude and I think it reflects an attitude which is quite common on our society. Why is it lazy to dedicate time to you friends rather than towards making money? Laziness connotes wasting time and not doing anything worthwhile, but spending time with people is infinitely more important than working a job. Nobody has suffered any negative consequence from my lack of work, yet I still feel the need to apologetically call it lazy. I am sure many others in my position would too.

As a whole, I feel like our society has an unhealthy relationship with work. Having a job and being very busy with work related tasks is seen as a positive, to the extent that it is often even equated with moral goodness. Yet spending time with those you love is not regarded in this same light. Why? Why is working to make money the way you ‘should’ spend your time? This lifestyle is only going to cause you to feel very stressed at the end of the day. Most likely it ultimately stems from materialism. I’ll have to stop myself before I call my extended Christmas break “lazy” again.

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Super Mario 3D Land

Super Mario 3D Land is a bit of good old fashioned Super Mario fun. It takes the standard 2D formula of having you start at the beginning of a course and then having you avoid various obstacles so that you can get to the flagpole at the end, but it brings it into 3D, so you’re moving through very linear 3D courses.

If you already know that you like the series, then you’ll almost certainly have a good time with this. It reminded me quite a lot of Super Mario Bros. 3 just with a touch of 3D gaming involved. It features the return of the Raccoon Leaf, which gives Mario a raccoon tail, which he can use to attack or to make himself fall more slowly. It’s a bit of a shame though, because it used to be able to make you fly but it has lost that power in this iteration. It also includes the return of the classic enemy Boom Boom and even introduced a female counterpart named Pom Pom (which I appreciated.) There’s a nice selection of levels, including haunted houses, air ships, forests and grassy fields and all the other classic Mushroom Kingdom destinations which are sure to make a lot of you feel nostalgic.

The storyline is very basic: Bowser has kidnapped Princess Peach and Mario is off to rescue her. It’s a very basic game in that regard. Every established gameplay element of the franchise is reintroduced in this game, meaning that it makes for a good jumping in point, if you’ve never really played any other games in the series. If you’re an experienced fan of the series and you want a challenge, you won’t find it here. This is a very easy game, even when it’s supposed to be hard. Is this disappointing? I didn’t think so. I found that this game was the perfect thing to relax with. It was just about difficult enough that winning a level felt like an achievement, but easy enough that you’re never really likely to lose. Combine the low level of difficulty with the bright and colourful visuals of the series and you’ve got a lovely experience on your hands. There’s plenty of replayability too, with lots of little secrets hidden throughout the game for you to go back and find. Although I guess it is fairly short overall.

I can’t say that Super Mario 3D Land is particularly innovative. The most unique thing about the game is that playing in 3D mode will occasionally make it easier for you to judge the distance when you have a jump, but other than that it’s just the same formula that we’ve grown to love over the years. While I can’t say that it was the case for me, I can imagine that some people might feel bored by this game. It’s lack of originality might also make it feel a little bland alongside the many similar Super Mario games, but I still think of it as a well made and enjoyable game.

Rating: 9/10

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Mistaken Identity

Back in the past, I liked to visit random chat services (like ChatRoulette) whenever I felt bored. This lead to some of my more popular blog posts (like this one) but it was something I got bored of and I didn’t come back to it very often. The people on it seemed quite sexually motivated and I was really only looking to make internet friends and have fun. Recently, on a whim, I decided to head back. Who knows what kind of misadventures may have awaited me? Well, I do. That is what today’s blog post is about.

I didn’t really encounter anybody who was especially sexual, but I did get mixed up in a case of mistaken identity. See, the random chat service I was using this time allowed you to enter a user name for yourself, at first I was just using my initials, but after a while I used “Male.” Why did I do that? Well, it might seem odd coming from me (somebody who does not identify very strongly with their sex) but when I went onto the site the first question everybody asked me was “M or F?” which, in layman’s terms means “Biologically speaking, are you male or female?” and so to save time I set “Male” as my username. I think a lot of the userbase are male, actually, and a lot of them were only interested in speaking to females, which meant I got passed over a lot.

Anyway, now for the meat of the story. I was eventually talking to somebody who didn’t disconnect right away. I believe their name was ‘X’ and their first question for me was whether or not I remember “Cinderella.” I told them that while I had never had the opportunity to watch any of the film adaptations but I had read the original Brothers Grimm fairy tale and so was familiar with the story. It turns out, that what they meant was did I remember a user called “Cinderella” as that was their old username.

In the past, they had grown quite attached to a user called “Male” and my namesake had promised to come and visit “Cinderella” in her hometown and it appears that the pair of them had shared some kind of romance during their one off online chat. She told me that I had lied to her and betrayed her. She said that I had broken her heart. It took me quite a while to persuade her that I was somebody else entirely. She was quite angry. Thankfully, I was able to convince her that I was telling the truth. But this wasn’t the end.

Once “Cinderella” had been persuaded that I wasn’t the person she’d spoken to before, she started telling me about her sad love life. She said she could never find anybody in real life and had to use this to meet people. I warned her against becoming too emotionally invested in people before she knew for sure she could trust them and offered advice for meeting new people and cultivating healthy relationships. Then she said that nobody had ever been nicer to her than me and that she was started to feel romantic attraction towards me. Uh oh.

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Moving Away from Physical Goods

This Christmas I was surprised and delighted to get a Kindle as one of my gifts. Back in 2011, I remember talking to a friend of mine and dismissing the Kindle as something which ruined the experiences of reading, but in the five years since then I’ve had quite a change of opinion. Not only am I not anti-Kindle now, but I am very pro-Kindle. I love mine and I look forward to reading many books on it – not that I am now not interested in owning books physically.

I have a very small bedroom and not enough room to contain my possessions. As a result, my room is very messy because there are books and all other things all over the floor and taking up all the space on the shelves and desks I have. Five years ago I didn’t have quite as much stuff but now I do and it’s a real issue. These days getting something digitally is quite nice, because I know I’m not going to have to deal with the issue of storing it and as I have started to buy more and more things digitally, I’ve started to realise that I’m not missing out on that much by doing so.

When somebody writes a book, you want to read what they have to say and if the writer’s any good, you’ll enjoy their work no matter how you consume it. When a video game is released, you just want to play it: why does it matter if it’s installed into your system or read from a disk? These are the kinds of conclusions I find myself coming to these days. But having said that, I can still understand the pleasure of getting an especially nice edition of a book or wanting to own your favourite game physically. I’m just a lot more accepting of digital purchases these days and I think my initial skepticism was just an irrational fear of something new.

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Vermin

Vermin is one of the earliest Game & Watches (in fact, it is the third) but it’s one which cemented the formula for future titles in the range. The first two had been rather atypical when compared to the later games, but Vermin was the first to have you doing a simple, repetitive task which becomes increasingly difficult over time – with three lives, you have to keep going in order to get the highest possible score.

So what do you do in Vermin? Well, you play as somebody who is presumably a farmer and you have two massive mallets. There are several vegetables growing on the screen and you’ll see moles burrowing towards them. When they pop their heads out to eat the vegetables, you need to be ready in position to hit them before they eat the vegetables. The moment they stick their heads out, he’ll automatically hit them.

Really, it’s quite simple even by Game & Watch standards, but I still enjoy it. It’s probably one of the easiest Game & Watches and I think that helps to make it quite addictive. It’s a fun way to pass five or ten minutes. Plus, there’s a harder difficulty mode too, where things are just a bit faster. Well worth a look if you’re into older games.

Rating: 6/10

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Christmas Stories

A Christmas tradition which I have, but which seems to be fairly uncommon in my experience, is writing a Christmas story each year. Obviously, I am quite creative and so enjoy writing fiction recreationally and if you aren’t that kind of person, you won’t enjoy it quite so much. But if you do write, writing an annual Christmas story is something you might enjoy very much. Is Christmas not quite feeling as special as you’d hoped? Then you can create that special feeling yourself in your writing. It’s an exercise I really enjoy and I feel like I’ve sometimes even gotten something very good out of it.

From a more productive perspective, activities like these could be a good way to help develop the characters you’ve created for other pieces of work. Are you writing a novel? Then perhaps doing something like writing about the main character’s experiences over Christmas could help you to gain a stronger understanding of who they are. Who knows, perhaps you’d even find a way to incorporate it into your novel? I think all writing, even when it’s not directly tied to something you plan to publish, is worthwhile and valuable. But for me, this activity is, first and foremost, a leisurely activity to get me into the Christmas spirit. Although, then again, the majority of my writing is done for leisure. If you don’t write and instead produce a different kind of art, you might still like to try doing something Christmassy once a year, just in your preferred medium. All prompts are useful!

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Game & Watch Gallery

Game & Watch Gallery is the first game in a delightful series which sees Game & Watch titles remade in ways which incorporate different characters like, Mario, Donkey Kong and Yoshi. I personally adore every installment and consider it one of the best ways to experience Game & Watch games. Not only do you get the remakes, but you also get recreations of the originals, so there’s no chance that you’ll miss out on anything. This first collection, sadly only includes four games, but it’s still very good and they’re all great fun to replay frequently to try and beat your high scores. What I’ll do is link to my reviews of the original games and then review each of the remakes.

Manhole (original review)
The original game had you playing as a regular person who had a single manhole cover and had to switch between four open manholes in order to stop people falling in as they walked by. In this version of the game, you play as Yoshi, who sits in the middle of the screen and uses his hands and long tongue to keep four separate manhole covers up. In this one, the manhole covers fall down after somebody walks over them and it’s you’re job to either hold them in place as people walk by or to put the covers back up after they fall down. It’s much more enjoyable over the original, as it’s a lot easier, the gameplay never feels slow and you have Mario, Toad and Donkey Kong Jr. filling the roles of the people who pass by.

Fire (original review)
Instead of playing as fireman helping people fleeing from a burning apartment building, you play as Mario and Luigi, who are helping out after what looks like Princess Peach’s castle has caught fire. Yoshis, Toads and various duplicates of Donkey Kong Jr. all jump from the building and Mario and Luigi must use a trampoline to bounce them into a nearby carriage. I have to admit that it bugs me a bit to see Donkey Kong Jr. used as if he is a generic Mushroom Kingdom species and not an individual (and Manhole does it slightly too) but this is still very fun. The different characters fall at different speeds and bounce to different heights, but other than that this isn’t all that much different to the original. Thankfully, the original is really good and I enjoy it even more with a splash of Super Mario paint. One thing I should point out is that if you play the original, a new animation has been added of people storming away after they hit the floor. Originally, you just got a picture of an angle near the top of the screen to indicate they had died, but I guess Nintendo wanted it to be more family friendly for this rerelease.

Octopus (original review)
In this game, Mario and Peach have sailed out in search of treasure (replacing the generic divers of the original.) You basically have to move around under the water to collect as much treasure as possible and bring it back up to the ship, while avoiding the dangerous reach of the octopus’s tentacles. It’s not too much different to the original, but it provides you with one disadvantage and one perk. The disadvantage is that the more treasure Mario takes, the slower he becomes, but the perk is that he can throw the treasure at the octopus to temporarily stun it. Of the four Game & Watch titles remade in this collection, this one is probably my least favourite, but I still have fun with it.

Oil Panic (original review)
Oil Panic has always seemed a little strange to me. I never really understood the scenario which was taking place and I don’t really understand it in the remake either. Mario is inside one of Bowser’s castles and there are a few fires on the ground. Oil drips through the ceiling and Mario needs to catch it in a bucket (he has one in each hand) to stop it hitting the floor. Bowser is standing on the roof and I don’t know he’s causing the oil to drip through the ceiling or what, but he is holding a bucket so I think he is supposed to be. Once the buckets are full, Mario needs to dispose of the oil and he does this by tossing it out of the window for Yoshi to eat. Yes, apparently Yoshi eats oil. He must feel kind of weird about it, since he is a dinosaur. But if Yoshi’s not there, you’ll toss the oil onto either Luigi or Donkey Kong Jr. who are just sitting around and minding their own business outside. This will lose you a life, just like if the oil touches the floor. Having two buckets (rather than one) makes the game much more enjoyable and easier. As does the ability to turn around and catch things in different buckets. Two huge improvements over the original.

Overall, this a game I enjoy very much and it would surely make a pleasant addition to the collection of any Nintendo fan. These games are all highly addictive and beating your old high scores can be very satisfying. There is a small gallery of Game & Watches to fill and you get rewarded with them for getting certain high scores in the game, which is a further incentive to replay, if one were needed.

These remakes all improve over the original in small or big ways, but even if you’d rather play the originals first, that option is available to you, since they are all included. As it can be downloaded so cheaply these days, it’s well worth a try.

Rating: 8.3/10

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Loneliness

Way back in the second half of 2014, I was feeling rather lonely. Well, in fact, that’s quite a large understatement. At that point in my life, I was very lonely and I was quite miserable too. My social events were months apart and my friends all seemed to be moving on with their lives. It made me very unhappy, to the extent that I can easily call it the lowest point of my life. It was often difficult to find the motivation to get up in the morning. I had no money and no job. I spent most of my time simply doing nothing, other than a brief couple of months doing unpaid work at a nearby Job Centre. Needless to say, that didn’t make me feel much better. It was just an endless feeling of emptiness. Nothing was really exciting or interesting to me and it was hard for me to believe that things would change.

Since then, I have reunited with those friends and have made new ones too. My current happiness levels are a thousand times higher than they were then. In retrospect, it was very obvious that such a thing would only have lasted for a short time, but my mind was clouded. I can’t hold it against anyone, because they all had their own lives to live and it would have been quite a lot of effort for them to go out of their way to visit me (I live in quite an isolated area.) Plus, few people would have really been aware that I was suffering: I was always so happy when I did get the opportunity to see anyone that they probably would have been quite shocked to find how unhappy I was after I’d left. They certainly wouldn’t have just assumed that that was the case based on my interactions with them either.

So what can I take from this horrible experience? Well, I can use it to try and improve myself. I don’t want anybody I know to suffer that pain, so from then on I have tried my hardest to do all I can to let people know how highly I value them. I’m not afraid to tell people I love them and to give speeches about how wonderful people are. If I haven’t seen someone in a long time, I’ll try to arrange to see them. If I can’t see them, I’ll still try to leave them with a positive impression. It’s upsetting to know that there must be so many people feeling as lonely as that and I will just try to do my best to ensure that nobody I care about ever has to feel that way.

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The Story of Friendship

In my eyes, every friendship is a little bit like a story. When you meet somebody, that’s the start of the story and the finite nature of life means that all of these stories must come to an end eventually. But the most exciting thing, as with all stories, is what happens in the middle. Sometimes there’ll be tensions and dramas, but all going well, the majority of it will be fun, laughter and excitement.  Much as stories develop over time and cause you to become more emotionally invested, so too do human relationships. The longer we know somebody, the more we care for them and the more we value them. Different friendships provide us with different things and sometimes we’ll find ourselves craving one over another: it’s much the same as enjoying different genres of fiction. Ultimately, these stories, these relationships, are the things which mold our perception of the world around us, our beliefs and ideals. At the end of the day, they may leave us feeling happy or they may leave us feeling sad – either way they make us feel and to feel is to live. We all love stories, because our lives are made up of countless different stories. Knowing that we are part of the stories for lots of different people gives our lives value and watching your own stories unfold is one of life’s most beautiful experiences.

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