_ My Mum has given me a few objections to my last entry ‘Friendship’ so I thought I’d address them now. First, she said that I made my family look bad, which I didn’t mean to do, I was just using what they said as something to contrast my view of friendship with. There’s no real reason to like most of the people you know anyway, since they probably don’t like you very much if they don’t know you that well.
Second, the point of my entry seemed to be misunderstood. My Mum asked if that meant people should try and be good friends with people who damage people’s things or hurt others, but again this isn’t the impression I meant to give. My point was that, so long as people aren’t hurting anybody, there’s no reason to judge them. If somebody actively does bad things to others why should you be friends with them? What’s stopping them from doing the same to you?
Third, she said that it seems very dismissive of my friends if I ‘like everybody’ but this is very far from the impression I was trying to give. I have a rather small circle of people I consider to be my close friends, and I think they’re all very good people who have their own unique qualities. I just meant that I still quite like, and am happy to see, people I don’t know all that well too, but it doesn’t compare to the relationships I have with my close friends.
I hope this has cleared up any misconceptions which others may also have had. 

I was talking with my family just the other day and I was quite surprised to hear them say two things: first, that they don’t like the majority of people and, second, that they wouldn’t be friends with people who did things they didn’t like or disagreed with. I have to say that I am of a completely different view on both of these points.
I may only have a small number of friends who I’m very close to, but I still like all of the other people I know. My family said that if they didn’t really know somebody all that well, they weren’t really all that bothered about them. I suppose there’s nothing wrong with this, I mean, if you don’t really know somebody, how do you know that they’re not secretly a very bad person? But, then again, at the same time, how do you know that they’re not secretly a really nice person? No matter who it is, if I happen to bump into somebody I know I’ll be very happy to see and talk to them. Perhaps that’s a little too optimistic, I don’t know. But, what I do know, is that it must be nicer to be happy every time you see somebody than to be disinterested unless it’s one of your closest friends.
But I wasn’t particularly bothered by the first point, perhaps you get even more joy from your closest friendships that way? My main problem was with the idea of not being friends who do things you disagree with. My friends do all kinds of things which I disagree with: drinking lots of alcohol, smoking and being involved with sexually explicit things which I’d rather not think about to name three. But they’re still my friends, and who am I to judge them? If those are the things they enjoy doing, so be it. If it’s making them happy to do those things, I’d be making them unhappy to try and stop them. They’re not harming anybody, so there’s reason to pass judgement. I’m sure you may say that they’re harming themselves and so I should dissuade them, but they’re intelligent people with their own free will, they know drinking too much can be bad in the long run and it’s their choice about whether they do drink and how much. I value all of my friendships with people very highly and if they were ever doing something that would immediately harm themselves or others, I would intervene, but I have no right to oppose they’re choice of recreational activities. While I may not like the idea of a lot of the things I’ve mentioned I can see that they are all good people, and since they are good people, I can only hope to have long lasting friendships with them all.

_ I think I may have mentioned once before that my friend Dalfino Madrigal Keyte made his own album called the ‘Record of Matches’ which is inspired by a poetry collection called the ‘Book of Matches’. His album is now available to listen to online via SoundCloud, so I suggest you give it a listen; there are a number of good tracks on there. There’s quite a wide range of music on it too, there are regular old alternative rock tracks, crazy experimental tracks and instrumentals as well. Whatever you like, I imagine there’ll be at least one track that you enjoy. Here’s a link: http://soundcloud.com/dalfinokeyte

I realise my blog title is awfully critical and that I don’t want my blog to be an awfully critical place, but this SOPA law seems to be to be very bad, so I’m going to have to make an exception in its case… Plus, I do like my blog titles to be alliterative and ‘SOPA Sucks’ certainly achieves this.
Anywho, I want to start this entry by saying that I’m against pirating things over the internet. When I can buy something I never download it for free, it’s just a small principle I have. Having said that, there are lots of films and pieces of music that’re very obscure and are either very difficult to buy commercially or no longer available in any form; when I physically can’t buy something, I will watch or download the music from the internet, and this isn’t something I feel bad about at all. If an obscure artist wasn’t particularly successful when they had their first album out, or if a film wasn’t very widely viewed, then people illegally downloading it on the internet could increase its popularity and then due to all the internet following maybe it would be released commercially again and the artist would begin to make money once again. But with SOPA this will be impossible, any site containing copyright infringement could be taken down entirely.
To summarise I would just like to make a simile of SOPA: Imagine the president of a country saw that another country had a lot of thieves who were coming in and taking back to their homeland, what he does is launch nuclear missiles at the country to stop the thieves. That’s how I see SOPA.

Just to add a small disclaimed, I haven’t thoroughly researched SOPA, I’ve only read a few articles so, if I’ve made any errors here feel free to tell me.