Writing Addiction

Since 2004, I have never gone through an extended period of time in which I didn’t write something. It was in that year that I started to write out regular short stories and before then I had created lots of little comics, so really it kind of goes back even further than that. In 2011 I started writing regular blog posts for this blog as well and in 2012 I started writing my own webcomic too. Then in 2014 I started working as a freelance writer. Even if, for a second, we imagined that writing was not integral to my income, I’d still find it harder to not write than to write.

I remember in either 2005 or 2006, I realised that writing was actually taking up quite a lot of my free time and I thought it might be best to give it up. Looking back that was a strange conclusion to come to, but, regardless, I tried to stop. One month later I started again, because I just can’t bring myself to stop. I suppose it’s a little like an addiction, but one which doesn’t come with any negative repercussions (I am not one of those stereotypical writers who put their work ahead of their personal relationships and health – none of the writers I know are, actually.)

I think it’s because, to me, if I don’t write, life isn’t really fulfilling. I need to create things and to record my thoughts and being unable to do so leaves me feeling unhappy. Obviously, it’s not the only thing I need to do for my life to be fulfilling (I’d feel equally unfulfilled and unhappy if I had no friends as well) but it’s a central part of myself and I think that this is something which a lot of creative will relate to. Perhaps that will help non-creative people to understand the creative mindset.

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What You Mean to Me

The thing which I aim for the most in life, is getting to spend as much time as possible with my friends. Whether I’m meeting somebody for lunch or planning a whole day out with somebody, I’ll find myself filled with excitement the day before because I know that I’ll soon be spending time with one of the people I value the most.

So, since time spent socialising with friends is something I value so highly, I have to ask myself what exactly I get from such an activity? It’s the kind of thing you don’t often stop to ask yourself, but it’s something I wanted to reflect on.

I guess I don’t really have an enormous number of friends; I see some people post things on Facebook and have fifty or more people “like” it and I’d never have that many people interested in something I did. Instead I have a fairly small handful of people with whom I share an especially close bond. I suppose I’m such a sentimental and affectionate person, that when I meet people it’s highly likely that I will end up becoming quite close with them.

But I haven’t answered the question yet. What exactly do I get from spending time with my friends? Well, it’s really very hard to describe. Imagine two scenarios: in one I am sitting silently on a bench by myself and enjoy the scenery of wherever I happen to be, in the other I am sitting with a close friend and we’re both sitting in silence enjoying the scenery. Really, from a rational stand point, nothing would actually be different, but I’d be much happier just knowing a friend was there. Being physically close to somebody you care about is rewarding, I think, even if you don’t do anything. Plus, I suppose there’s also the pleasant fact that in that second scenario somebody had decided to dedicate time to me, which I always appreciate.

Perhaps in more tangible terms, I get a sense of validation. Throughout my life I’ve been politely told that I’m quite “eccentric” and impolitely told that I’m quite “weird” – this distinction is not something I choose, yet it is a fact of my being. When I spend time with somebody who cares a lot about me, it’s affirmation that my “alternative” perspective is completely valid and not alienating. Plus, I suppose the thing I like most of all is seeing people that I care about being filled with happiness – I enjoy being kind to the people I love because then I can see them feeling very happy and knowing that I have the capacity to do that (especially to the wonderful people that I know) makes me feel very good about myself.

I don’t really know how to conclude today’s blog post, but I will just say: if you’re one of my close friends and you’re reading this (and let’s be honest here, my friends are the majority of my readers), if you’re on my “Friend Square” and if I’m always trying to arrange to see you, then feel happy because to me you are very important. To me you are my whole world.

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Mario Bros. (Game & Watch)

Mario Bros. Game and WatchWhen most people think of a game entitled “Mario Bros.” they probably think of the popular arcade game, but this Game & Watch was actually the first game to bare that title. Not only is this one of the Game & Watches which I had the most fun with, but it’s also the game that introduced us to Mario’s brother, Luigi. While at this point Luigi was nothing but an identical copy to Mario who wore green (and, in-game, that’s all black) he would in time grow to be one of the most loveable characters in the Super Mario franchise and it’s very interesting to look back at his origin. It’s also the first time that Mario really “spun off” from the Donkey Kong series, as there are no ties to those games other than Mario himself.

Anyway, the game itself has Mario and Luigi working in a factory where they must put boxes onto conveyor belts where things are added to them. The game takes place across two screens, but unlike other dual screened Game & Watches, this one is held so that the screens are side by side (rather than one on top of the other.) The left screen has Luigi on it and the right screen has Mario on it and you control each of them independently. Boxes appear at the bottom right, Mario has to catch them and put them onto the first conveyor belt, which brings them over to Luigi who has to pass them onto the second conveyor belt, which is above the first and then comes back to Mario. You pass them up through several conveyor belts until they get to the top and are tossed into a lorry. It’s very simple, but hugely addictive – it’s available with an easier and a harder difficulty level too. Also, like every Game & Watch, you can use it as a watch and an alarm.

This is one of my favourite Game & Watch titles and if you’re only going to try a small number of them, I strongly recommend that this be one of them! I find that some of the Game & Watches are too difficult to get really drawn into, but this one gets the difficulty just right and it’s really quite therapeutic to pass those boxes around for so long. A simple and elegant game.

Rating: 7.9/10

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Buy it here as part of Game & Watch Gallery 3.

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Writing Letters

As cynical as it may sound, I’m not an enormous fan of greeting cards. I don’t want to universally condemn them, because sometimes they can be very nice and people can write special little messages in them and so forth, but I am not a big fan of people doing nothing but writing “To X from, Y” in cards and then just using the mass produced synthetic emotional messages inside them to express what they’re feeling. I don’t really like this because if people have easy access to a card which expresses some form of emotion, they’ll just use that instead of articulating what they actually feel and think about others.

As an alternative to this, I quite like to write letters to my friends. I feel that this has its strengths for a lot of reasons. Firstly, it’s helpful for me to clear my thoughts and to identify just how important somebody is to me – this kind of exercise helps me to ensure that I don’t take people for granted. Secondly, people are much more likely to keep it than they would a card and the words within are much more likely to carry some weight than words which are duplicated across thousands of cards. Also if people haven’t seen or heard from me in a while, they’ll always have that letter to look back on as a firm reminder of my strong feelings for them. The only real downside is sometimes I forgot what I’ve written in past letters and worry that I might be repeating myself.

Writing letters is quite a pleasant experience for everyone involved, really. I always give out letters at Christmas and I am already starting to get excited as I think about what I will write for each person this year. Maybe you should write some letters for the people in your life this Christmas?

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Repairing The Damage

For the past ten months, I’ve been working in a toxic and unpleasant workplace. I don’t want to go into the details, but I was very unhappy and it was causing me a huge deal of stress, to the point of it affecting my health. The good news is that Monday was my last day there and I am feeling much, much happier ever since leaving.

One thing that I have noticed since I left, is just how much it was effecting me. Back in the past, I felt like I was quite good at making conversation, but over the past ten months I see that most of the conversations I had with most of the people I knew were about the problems with my work. Somehow or another, I had allowed that job to become a defining part of my personality, of my very being, so any time I spoke to somebody, it would always tie back in to my work. It’s really nice to know that these things no longer effect me, but it also feels a bit strange and it will take some getting used to.

It’s a huge shame that this negative experience has weakened my conversational skills, but I think this is something which will soon change. Working in a negative environment gave me a more negative perspective on life, which caused me to focus more on negative things (like my work.) Leaving that negative environment will help me to become more positive once again and to focus on the more positive aspects of life (as before) and therefore broaden the things I can talk about. Either way, I’m glad it’s over and am looking hopefully to the future.

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Luigi’s Mansion

Luigi's MansionI love the Super Mario series, but like a lot of people, I feel more strongly endeared to Mario’s brother Luigi than Mario himself and so I was delighted when I found out that one of the first games on the Gamecube (Luigi’s Mansion) would feature Luigi as its main character. But that’s not all! Luigi’s Mansion also has a slightly stronger story focus than the other games in the series and a somewhat darker tone – these are two things I’d always hoped to get from the Super Mario series.

The story goes that Luigi is notified that he has won a mansion through a contest which he doesn’t even remember entering. Mario goes ahead to check it out and Luigi follows shortly afterward. When he arrives in the mansion, Mario is nowhere to be found and the whole place is full of ghosts and very sinister. Luigi is soon cornered by a ghost and doesn’t know what to do, but he is then saved by Professor E. Gadd who defeats the ghost with his invention, the Poltergust 3000 which is a special kind of vacuum cleaner. E. Gadd explains that this mansion popped up overnight and is filled with ghosts who had escaped from paintings. Luigi is trained in the ways of the Poltergust and must recapture all of the ghosts and save Mario!

Unlike other games, you’re not running around and jumping on platforms and enemies to get through levels, instead you’re slowly exploring a massive mansion. You’ll find yourself in a lot of dark, atmospheric rooms where you have to figure out how to make the ghosts appear. Sometimes you’ll just have an onslaught of smaller ghosts attacking you, other times you’ll be targeting a specific ghost. For example, in one level you have to do things with the toys in the room in order to make a ghost baby appear. The fact that there is a ghost baby in the game at all shows how this is quite a bit darker than the series usually is. It’s a nice change of pace in every regard.

Overall, I’m very fond of this game. I like getting a bit of character development for Luigi. I like the introduction of Professor E. Gadd. I like the additions to the lore of the series. I like that lots of the ghosts are actual characters, rather than generic creatures. I like that soundtrack is nice and spooky, but also that there is sometimes nothing but background noises. I like the more puzzle-oriented style of gameplay and the fact the game world is one big mansion. I guess it is a bit short and it could do with a smidgen of variation, but overall it’s a very enjoyable experience. Perfect to play around Halloween time.

Rating: 8.9/10

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Taking Advantage

Something I find interesting is that a lot of people worry about others’ taking advantage of me. A few people have said it lately, but nobody has specifically articulated any specific examples. Why would people think that anybody is taking advantage of me if they don’t have a single example? I think a lot of the reason is that what some people would consider people taking advantage of me, is me deciding to do something which I am happy to do for somebody. I am quite patient when people need help or something from me, but I think a lot of people wrongly assumed that I wasn’t that patient and simply said or did things for fear of not doing so. But I gave it some thought because, of course, because if somebody suggests to me that I have some harmful or unhealthy habits or attitudes, I think it’s important that I reflect on it and am conscious of their concerns. In this particular occasion, I realised that I was being taken advantage of and I had convinced myself that it was a matter of morality and not coercion. Identifying this was difficult, but once I had done so I realised that it was time to make an important change in my life and so that’s exactly what I did. Quite honestly, I feel quite happy.

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Hypothermia

When I recently took my trip to Scotland, I was telling my friends Rory and Mairi a story about something I had done several years previously. I thought it was just a rather interesting and unusual anecdote, but then Mairi said “What you just described is hypothermia and it’s a miracle that you survived that without medical attention.” Which is interesting.

The story I told was about the time I, on a school trip, was in a kayak with my friend Christian Watkins. It was February and quite chilly. Unfortunately for me, we kept crashing and I kept falling into the cold water. The third time I fell in, I decide that there was no point getting back out of the water, since I would probably fall back in and get wet again anyway, so I stayed in. I walked along through the river, rather than riding a boat along it. This was quite early on and I spent most of the time wandering through the river; it was cold, but I got used to it quite quickly. I think, overall, I was probably in it for about six hours.

When we got to the end of the river, I climbed out. Despite the fact that it was a cold February evening, I found that the cold air was burning my skin, which must have been even colder. This felt very strange, but wasn’t enormously unpleasant. I remember I was shivering a lot when I got out and for the rest of the week too. At the time I was thinking it was strange that I could be in a hot shower, or wrapped up in bed, and still be shivering with the cold. It lasted for about a week on the whole and, so I’m told, that is exactly what hypothermia is. It’s kind of weird that nobody seemed to realise I was suffering from something quite serious. Never mind!

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Mario Kart 8

Mario Kart 8I always loved the Mario Kart series – the previous games had already been pretty amazing. Mario Kart Wii and Mario Kart DS are two games which I’ve had hundreds of hours of enjoyment with and which I continue to love to this day. So it should mean a lot when I say that this one blew them out of the water and became an instant favourite for me.

The unique selling point of this installment is that it introduces race tracks which have anti-gravity sections.  The anti-gravity aspect is quite fun and allows for exciting scenarios like racing up a waterfall. But, I think, what really sets this game apart from the rest is the fact that it is the first to be on a console which supports HD graphics. Every single level is absolutely gorgeous and the Mushroom World has never before felt so real and immersive. You’ve got creepy old haunted houses, airships up in the clouds, lands made of sweets, ancient temples and more. It was really exciting to see how old, returning tracks looked after their HD makeover too: Toad’s Turnpike (from Mario Kart 64) is now a beautiful highway in and out of a city,  Rainbow Road (also from Mario Kart 64) is now a really beautiful, sparking mural above a darkened city and Sherbet Land (from Mario Kart: Double Dash!!) has gone from being a bland, frustrating and uninteresting snowy race track to a beautiful snow covered road in the night. Every last track is a delight.

One thing that the game has been criticised for is it’s character selection and, I’ll admit, there were some odd additions, such as Bowser Jr., Birdo and all the Kongs other than Donkey, but I’d hardly call that a negative aspect of the game. You get a nice number of characters (including the Koopalings for the first time) and I never felt frustrated by the selection. Sure, there are maybe one too many babies and different variations on other characters, but I guess they were easy to make and I doubt they were instead of unique characters.

Of course, what most people like about these games is the multiplayer: once again, you can have a really good time playing locally with friends, or you can play with loads of people online. However you do it, it’s always highly enjoyable. Battle Mode has been changed so that you now only battle on the race tracks, but I’m not too bothered by the lack of battle specific areas. Plus, a new mode called MKTV allows you to watch and edit replays of races, which is really fun – you can even upload to YouTube!

What this game does for the first time in the Mario Kart series, is offer several pieces of additional content which can be purchased or added for free. Several Amiibo will give you unique Mii costumes (including Sonic and Mega Man!) and you can also download 200cc for the first time (which is really hard) as well as some Mercedes vehicles. But most excitingly, Mario Kart 8 has two packs of downloadable content which contain some really exciting things. You can get Link as a playable character and race around Hyrule, you can race as Isabelle or Animal Crossing Villagers and race in an Animal Crossing village and you can even race on some brand new F-Zero tracks! It’s some of the best downloadable content I have ever purchased and it really thrilled me as a Nintendo fan.

On the whole, this game is superb. It’s really fun to play by yourself or with friends and seeing all of the beautiful race tracks and leisurely speeding through them is an amazing experience all on its own. This is definitely something you should try.

Rating: 9.6/10

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Touching People

Back in the past, I avoided making physical contact with people 100% of the time. It made me anxious and I did not like it. Of course, I was still forced to hug family members and so forth, but in my own engagements with people, I avoided it almost entirely. If I needed to tap somebody on the shoulder, I would use a pen and I obviously would not initiate any larger form of physical interaction. I remember one friend would hug me quite often and when they did I would just pat them on the head. I generally did this with everybody until somebody told me that it was very demeaning.

But, gradually, over time, I have experienced quite a shift in terms of what I do and do not like in terms of physical interaction. I remember one friend of mine would always give me gentle pats on the arm and when, in an unrelated conversation, I mentioned that I didn’t like touching people, they completely stopped doing it. I felt a bit sad about that. It was a very gradual shift, but I can enjoy all kinds of physical intimacy now.

For me, it’s interesting to reflect on how I have evolved in this regard. In the past, I avoided all forms of physical contact, but now I have happily engaged in hugs with lots of people, hand holding, arm linking, spooning and more – though I should be clear that these are all things that have been initiated by other people. I still don’t go out of my way to be physical with people myself, but it is something I can enjoy now. These days I think that physical contact is an important part of human interaction and bonding, really and sometimes I can gain a lot from it. I like to look at this as a good example of my having overcome an anxiety.

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