Repairing The Damage

For the past ten months, I’ve been working in a toxic and unpleasant workplace. I don’t want to go into the details, but I was very unhappy and it was causing me a huge deal of stress, to the point of it affecting my health. The good news is that Monday was my last day there and I am feeling much, much happier ever since leaving.

One thing that I have noticed since I left, is just how much it was effecting me. Back in the past, I felt like I was quite good at making conversation, but over the past ten months I see that most of the conversations I had with most of the people I knew were about the problems with my work. Somehow or another, I had allowed that job to become a defining part of my personality, of my very being, so any time I spoke to somebody, it would always tie back in to my work. It’s really nice to know that these things no longer effect me, but it also feels a bit strange and it will take some getting used to.

It’s a huge shame that this negative experience has weakened my conversational skills, but I think this is something which will soon change. Working in a negative environment gave me a more negative perspective on life, which caused me to focus more on negative things (like my work.) Leaving that negative environment will help me to become more positive once again and to focus on the more positive aspects of life (as before) and therefore broaden the things I can talk about. Either way, I’m glad it’s over and am looking hopefully to the future.

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Luigi’s Mansion

Luigi's MansionI love the Super Mario series, but like a lot of people, I feel more strongly endeared to Mario’s brother Luigi than Mario himself and so I was delighted when I found out that one of the first games on the Gamecube (Luigi’s Mansion) would feature Luigi as its main character. But that’s not all! Luigi’s Mansion also has a slightly stronger story focus than the other games in the series and a somewhat darker tone – these are two things I’d always hoped to get from the Super Mario series.

The story goes that Luigi is notified that he has won a mansion through a contest which he doesn’t even remember entering. Mario goes ahead to check it out and Luigi follows shortly afterward. When he arrives in the mansion, Mario is nowhere to be found and the whole place is full of ghosts and very sinister. Luigi is soon cornered by a ghost and doesn’t know what to do, but he is then saved by Professor E. Gadd who defeats the ghost with his invention, the Poltergust 3000 which is a special kind of vacuum cleaner. E. Gadd explains that this mansion popped up overnight and is filled with ghosts who had escaped from paintings. Luigi is trained in the ways of the Poltergust and must recapture all of the ghosts and save Mario!

Unlike other games, you’re not running around and jumping on platforms and enemies to get through levels, instead you’re slowly exploring a massive mansion. You’ll find yourself in a lot of dark, atmospheric rooms where you have to figure out how to make the ghosts appear. Sometimes you’ll just have an onslaught of smaller ghosts attacking you, other times you’ll be targeting a specific ghost. For example, in one level you have to do things with the toys in the room in order to make a ghost baby appear. The fact that there is a ghost baby in the game at all shows how this is quite a bit darker than the series usually is. It’s a nice change of pace in every regard.

Overall, I’m very fond of this game. I like getting a bit of character development for Luigi. I like the introduction of Professor E. Gadd. I like the additions to the lore of the series. I like that lots of the ghosts are actual characters, rather than generic creatures. I like that soundtrack is nice and spooky, but also that there is sometimes nothing but background noises. I like the more puzzle-oriented style of gameplay and the fact the game world is one big mansion. I guess it is a bit short and it could do with a smidgen of variation, but overall it’s a very enjoyable experience. Perfect to play around Halloween time.

Rating: 8.9/10

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Taking Advantage

Something I find interesting is that a lot of people worry about others’ taking advantage of me. A few people have said it lately, but nobody has specifically articulated any specific examples. Why would people think that anybody is taking advantage of me if they don’t have a single example? I think a lot of the reason is that what some people would consider people taking advantage of me, is me deciding to do something which I am happy to do for somebody. I am quite patient when people need help or something from me, but I think a lot of people wrongly assumed that I wasn’t that patient and simply said or did things for fear of not doing so. But I gave it some thought because, of course, because if somebody suggests to me that I have some harmful or unhealthy habits or attitudes, I think it’s important that I reflect on it and am conscious of their concerns. In this particular occasion, I realised that I was being taken advantage of and I had convinced myself that it was a matter of morality and not coercion. Identifying this was difficult, but once I had done so I realised that it was time to make an important change in my life and so that’s exactly what I did. Quite honestly, I feel quite happy.

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Hypothermia

When I recently took my trip to Scotland, I was telling my friends Rory and Mairi a story about something I had done several years previously. I thought it was just a rather interesting and unusual anecdote, but then Mairi said “What you just described is hypothermia and it’s a miracle that you survived that without medical attention.” Which is interesting.

The story I told was about the time I, on a school trip, was in a kayak with my friend Christian Watkins. It was February and quite chilly. Unfortunately for me, we kept crashing and I kept falling into the cold water. The third time I fell in, I decide that there was no point getting back out of the water, since I would probably fall back in and get wet again anyway, so I stayed in. I walked along through the river, rather than riding a boat along it. This was quite early on and I spent most of the time wandering through the river; it was cold, but I got used to it quite quickly. I think, overall, I was probably in it for about six hours.

When we got to the end of the river, I climbed out. Despite the fact that it was a cold February evening, I found that the cold air was burning my skin, which must have been even colder. This felt very strange, but wasn’t enormously unpleasant. I remember I was shivering a lot when I got out and for the rest of the week too. At the time I was thinking it was strange that I could be in a hot shower, or wrapped up in bed, and still be shivering with the cold. It lasted for about a week on the whole and, so I’m told, that is exactly what hypothermia is. It’s kind of weird that nobody seemed to realise I was suffering from something quite serious. Never mind!

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Mario Kart 8

Mario Kart 8I always loved the Mario Kart series – the previous games had already been pretty amazing. Mario Kart Wii and Mario Kart DS are two games which I’ve had hundreds of hours of enjoyment with and which I continue to love to this day. So it should mean a lot when I say that this one blew them out of the water and became an instant favourite for me.

The unique selling point of this installment is that it introduces race tracks which have anti-gravity sections.  The anti-gravity aspect is quite fun and allows for exciting scenarios like racing up a waterfall. But, I think, what really sets this game apart from the rest is the fact that it is the first to be on a console which supports HD graphics. Every single level is absolutely gorgeous and the Mushroom World has never before felt so real and immersive. You’ve got creepy old haunted houses, airships up in the clouds, lands made of sweets, ancient temples and more. It was really exciting to see how old, returning tracks looked after their HD makeover too: Toad’s Turnpike (from Mario Kart 64) is now a beautiful highway in and out of a city,  Rainbow Road (also from Mario Kart 64) is now a really beautiful, sparking mural above a darkened city and Sherbet Land (from Mario Kart: Double Dash!!) has gone from being a bland, frustrating and uninteresting snowy race track to a beautiful snow covered road in the night. Every last track is a delight.

One thing that the game has been criticised for is it’s character selection and, I’ll admit, there were some odd additions, such as Bowser Jr., Birdo and all the Kongs other than Donkey, but I’d hardly call that a negative aspect of the game. You get a nice number of characters (including the Koopalings for the first time) and I never felt frustrated by the selection. Sure, there are maybe one too many babies and different variations on other characters, but I guess they were easy to make and I doubt they were instead of unique characters.

Of course, what most people like about these games is the multiplayer: once again, you can have a really good time playing locally with friends, or you can play with loads of people online. However you do it, it’s always highly enjoyable. Battle Mode has been changed so that you now only battle on the race tracks, but I’m not too bothered by the lack of battle specific areas. Plus, a new mode called MKTV allows you to watch and edit replays of races, which is really fun – you can even upload to YouTube!

What this game does for the first time in the Mario Kart series, is offer several pieces of additional content which can be purchased or added for free. Several Amiibo will give you unique Mii costumes (including Sonic and Mega Man!) and you can also download 200cc for the first time (which is really hard) as well as some Mercedes vehicles. But most excitingly, Mario Kart 8 has two packs of downloadable content which contain some really exciting things. You can get Link as a playable character and race around Hyrule, you can race as Isabelle or Animal Crossing Villagers and race in an Animal Crossing village and you can even race on some brand new F-Zero tracks! It’s some of the best downloadable content I have ever purchased and it really thrilled me as a Nintendo fan.

On the whole, this game is superb. It’s really fun to play by yourself or with friends and seeing all of the beautiful race tracks and leisurely speeding through them is an amazing experience all on its own. This is definitely something you should try.

Rating: 9.6/10

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Touching People

Back in the past, I avoided making physical contact with people 100% of the time. It made me anxious and I did not like it. Of course, I was still forced to hug family members and so forth, but in my own engagements with people, I avoided it almost entirely. If I needed to tap somebody on the shoulder, I would use a pen and I obviously would not initiate any larger form of physical interaction. I remember one friend would hug me quite often and when they did I would just pat them on the head. I generally did this with everybody until somebody told me that it was very demeaning.

But, gradually, over time, I have experienced quite a shift in terms of what I do and do not like in terms of physical interaction. I remember one friend of mine would always give me gentle pats on the arm and when, in an unrelated conversation, I mentioned that I didn’t like touching people, they completely stopped doing it. I felt a bit sad about that. It was a very gradual shift, but I can enjoy all kinds of physical intimacy now.

For me, it’s interesting to reflect on how I have evolved in this regard. In the past, I avoided all forms of physical contact, but now I have happily engaged in hugs with lots of people, hand holding, arm linking, spooning and more – though I should be clear that these are all things that have been initiated by other people. I still don’t go out of my way to be physical with people myself, but it is something I can enjoy now. These days I think that physical contact is an important part of human interaction and bonding, really and sometimes I can gain a lot from it. I like to look at this as a good example of my having overcome an anxiety.

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Endless Art

There are so many books, video games, TV shows, movies and other pieces of art which I really want to consume. Honestly, with new things being produced all the time, there’s no way that I’ll be able to appreciate every piece of art that I’m interested in within my life. On the one hand, it’s a bit of a shame, but on the other hand, it’s also quite nice to have a nigh infinite selection of things to delve into. The world of art is so vast and so hugely interconnected, that I really love the fact that I can pick different things from different points in history, enjoy them in different ways and then observe the things that tie them together. Not only is this prospect quite exciting to me as a consumer of art, but also as a writer. Looking at this huge mass of human creation is deeply inspiring and it excites me to think that I am also contributing to this, even if only in a small way. It’s one of many reasons I am very grateful to have been born in this modern age; obviously I don’t know what the future holds (it might be even better) but I love the fact that such an enormous number of pieces of art are readily available to me when, even ten years ago, this would not have been the case. This is a real golden age for creatives.

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Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix by J. K. Rowling

Harry Potter and the Order of the PhoenixThis is the fifth book in the enormously popular Harry Potter series. When I read the first four, I felt like it just got better and better with each new books. I had heard that the fifth was a step down hill and that, due to its longer length, it was actually a little boring at times too. So I was pretty happy when I read this and I found that the pattern of improving with each new book had continued.

I’m going to assume that if you are reading this review, you already know about everything that happens in Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, namely, the cliffhanger of Voldemort’s return. With Voldemort back, the entire novel has a much darker tone. As soon as you start reading, you’ll find that the writing style seems quite a lot different. There was a certain light-hearted aspect to all of the previous ones which is noticeably absent this time (not entirely, but to a large extent) and it really helps to reflect the more serious story of this book.

The main focus of the book is the formation of the titular “Order of the Phoenix” which is a group of people who are secretly working together to stop Voldemort as soon as he strikes. The problem is that the Ministry of Magic does not accept the fact that Voldemort has returned and cause lots of problems for anybody who tries to claim that he has. There’s a really interesting political aspect to this book which I enjoyed very much. There are things like the Daily Prophet newspaper, which completely misrepresent what’s happening and have a strong Ministry-bias. It all felt like it was saying something about real world politics and I love to see criticism of real world problems in fantastical settings.

As usual for this series, the book is full of loveable characters. Hermione continues to be my favourite of the main three and I have to say that Harry suddenly seems like a much more miserable person, but I suppose that’s a fairly reasonable change, considering that he had witnessed the murder of a friend! Dumbledore was already somebody I loved, but after this book he took a few steps up and became even more charming and amazing in my mind. A new character named Umbridge is also introduced; Umbridge is very unlikable but brings a very interesting dimension to things which I appreciated a lot. Luna Lovegood is another character who’s pushed into the spotlight in this book and I have to say that I very quickly took a shine to her too!

So, overall, this book provides what all of the previous four did: a fleshed out world full of well developed characters. As things move along, the stakes grow higher and higher and I was “reading at the edge of my seat” throughout the whole book! A fantastic read.

Rating: 9.6/10

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A Cure for Writer’s Block

I never used to get much very much writer’s block, but since 2013, I get it quite regularly and really struggle to produce work outside of this blog and my webcomic. Thankfully, I can always overcome it every now and then so that I can still produce the occasional short story. I have a few little methods which I use to try and overcome my writer’s block and one of these is reading or otherwise consuming a lot of completed work of something I admire. I find this quite useful because it fills me with inspiration – the best idea is to take a look at a piece of work that has inspired my own work and in so doing you will become excited about the prospect of what your work could be… or, at least, that’s what I do in that situation.

To give a recent example, I want my writing to be an interconnected world where I follow several very different characters and tell very different stories with all of them. When I recently got back into the shared world of audio dramas created by Big Finish (and including the Doctor Who universe; one of my absolute favourite artworks) it really got me exciting about continuing to develop the world of my own short stories; so much so, that I wrote out the start of a new story an mentally planned out the next few stories which will follow! So if you’re suffering from writer’s block, find the artwork which is most similar to what you want your completed work to be and use it for inspiration!

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A Trip to Scotland

First of all, I am sorry that this was not posted on Friday (my usual update day) but I had some technical difficulties at the time – posting should be back to normal from now on. The other reason that I have recently missed updates is because I took a trip to visit a couple of friends of mine in Scotland and I would like to write about that today.

The whole trip was very exciting for a number of reasons: it was my first visit to Scotland, it was my first ride on board an aeroplane, it was a much needed break from work, it was a chance to see my friends Rory MacLellan and Mairi Mac Arthur (who I do not get to see very often) and it was a chance to introduce them to each other (I love introducing my friends who don’t know each other.) While there I did all kinds of things: I ate vegetarian haggis, I went on a nice coast-side walk, I explored a secluded patch of beach, I went to Edinburgh, I took a single sip of chocolate flavoured beer, I tried a couple of delicious burger places, I ate some Irn Bru flavoured ice cream and I also drank the drink Irn Bru for the first time, I visited a lovely free museum full of taxidermy and historical curiosities, popped into a lovely book shop and a Forbidden Planet shop, helped carry a bookshelf, rode on buses, rode on trains and so many other highly enjoyable things.

Overall, it was an amazing five days. I think the moment which will stick with me for the longest was a lovely half an hour or so I spent chatting with Rory and Mairi on a pier while a pleasant sun shone down on us and the waves washed gently upon the beach. Here’s a picture of the three of us in Edinburgh.

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